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Guns & Ammo

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Hunting. This is a tricky subject.


The pros against hunting:
1. On the surface, it seems to be this violent, barbaric act. Since I typically shy away from barbaric actions and violence in general, this 'hobby' seems to be unnecessary and belittling to a human’s intelligence (read a book, get involved in your community, help others, evolve.)

2. As a sport, it seems even more ridiculous. Where is the sport? Where is the even playing field of competitor vs. competitor? The idea of killing an innocent animal and then to hang it as a trophy seems disrespectful, mocking, and egotistical.

3. It disrupts the natural balance of things. The circle of life has worked for years, why are we playing God?

4. And this was always my personal argument: we need to rid ourselves of unnecessary violence/potential accidents and there is no sport in hunting. It is egotistical and self-serving way to pass the time and many, many people are accidently shot every year from guns. This is why we need to stop this.
The other side
1. I am a meat-eater. I may not eat much of it, but I never plan on giving it up either. Why is it widely accepted to eat meat neatly packaged from the supermarket, but not take the responsibility of one’s on food chain? Why are farm-raised animals deemed ok by society to eat?


I started to explore my thoughts on hunting when I briefly dated a hunter. His respect for the hunt, guns, and view on the whole process was remarkable. He took more time and care in hunting than I have ever put into an activity (my activities don’t usually have the potential to kill someone either). It wasn’t even the way he talked about hunting; it was his actions that spoke the respect and reverence. I still argued that no matter what, he was taking a life and that made me uncomfortable.

But I am a meat-eater, I am not taking responsibility for what is on my plate. I am not acknowledging that I am taking a life about three times a week. If you can’t take the responsibility, you should not have the privilege of enjoying that juicy prime rib.

My next step in this process was listening to NPR’s ‘To The Best Of Our Knowledge.’ They did a show on hunting in early 2009. It really explored what I needed to hear. Stories about why different people hunt. One man was a conservationist. He saw how deer were destroying trees and all their natural predators were gone, outnumbered, or killed. The deer continued to over-populate and continued to destroy plants and trees, which were destroying the landscape and other animal’s foods. The conservationist saw how he could contribute to reconciling the landscape and order and decided he needed to hunt. Whatever the reason was, they all seemed respectable and reasonable. One woman talked about the need for taking responsibility of what is on your dinner plate. This is the one point that obviously stayed with me.

As I was listening to the program, I had my aha moment. As I was listening, I heard people give the different reasons about why they hunt. Intelligent, educated, and evolved people. I have reached a conclusion that has made me feel a little more at ease with hunting. I think I have confused my opinions on hunting with my opinions on a certain lifestyle. The clothes, the lack of amenities, the typical conversations that are involved with hunters have really jaded me towards the whole situation. My exposure to hunting has been very one sided and I am realizing that now. You can hunt and realize that Obama is not a Muslim (aka terrorist) just because his middle name is Hussein. This spoke volumes to me.

Yes, there are some things about hunting that I will never understand: why get up at 4am in single digit weather to sit outside for 4 hours?  Why are taxidermists still in business? I know men that have never changed their child's diapers but will pull all the guts out of an 600 lb animal without blinking an eye.  These are the eternal questions that will never be answered and we need to accept that.

Am I going to hunt? I don’t know. I feel the need to take responsibility, but my dis-connected American mentality is still screaming to stay naïve and ignorant to the whole situation: cows come from the supermarket.

2009 list

Tuesday, December 22, 2009
So my new year’s resolution will be to start keeping track of what I watched and read this year because January was a long time ago....

Movies that deserve to be watched (they may be old, but I saw them for the first time this year)
1. The Hangover: hilarity to the extreme
2. Slumdog Millionaire: so good on so many levels
3. Rachel Getting Married: gifted actress, great story without being too depressing.
4. Dan in Real Life: love, love love.
5. The Proposal: better than I thought. Why I was doubting Sandra or the amazing Ryan Reynolds. They rule the rom-com.
6. I Love You, Man: ok, so I was on the plane and I did fall asleep, but it was much more developed in storyline and humor than I was expecting. Not too shabby.
7. Yes, Man. I am not a Jim Carrey fan and I was watching it as I cleaned out the basement, so this isn’t a critical analysis. I liked it because it was about embracing life and taking some chances, because you never seem to regret new experiences. Get out of the coma, it’s a good message.
8. I Have Loved You For So Long: slow, but interesting.
9. Up In The Air: Yes, I am hugely biased because of me, St. Louis and my George. I can’t tell you what it’s about either because I was too distracted, but Entertainment Weekly gave it an A, it leads in Golden Globe nominations, and Jason Reitman, need I say more?!
10. Julie & Julia: I started this last night, but I didn’t finish it. Meryl Streep was mesmerizing.


Movies I think you can skip:
1. Coraline: I love you Tim Burton, I love claymation, but this one was just too odd and scary.
2. Revolutionary Road: an unhappy couple fighting all the time. I am sure you can find that in real life.
3. Confessions of a Shopoholic: cute book, dumb, dumb, dumb movie
4. Sunshine Cleaning: just so-so, I expected more Amy Adams and Alan Arkin.
5. 500 days of Summer: if it’s on tv, it’s a cute little movie, watch it. Don’t seek it out. Joseph Gordon-Levitt is adorable. The story is good, I just missed connecting with the characters.
6. Marley & Me: you have got to be kidding me. This is why I hate dogs, the lack of control and how they run your life: “see, I told you he wouldn’t try to eat the baby.” If that is a worry in your life, your need to rethink your priorities.
7. Ghosts of Girlfriends Past: if you have seen the commercial, you got it all. It’s a good ‘chore’ movie. It’s on while you clean and pick-up, you can leave and comeback and not miss a thing.


I can’t remember any books I read this year (except Twilight). I don’t think I can remember because I didn’t really read any great books (yes, Twilight was good, the others slowed, but worth the read). I do have some interesting ones in line for 2010.

This entry is a little pathetic.

Looking for a good home

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Another reason I love Chuck....he is letting me sell the sofa and loveseat. Anyone's grandma looking for furniture?


So So Thankful

Monday, November 23, 2009
I am one of the luckiest and most blessed people. Everyone I know has an ideal life for the most part, yet I continue to go about my day saying, "if only...[I made more money, I had a different job, I could water ski]." I never stop and say, "wow. I am sooooo lucky and thankful." I am and here are just a few reasons why.

1. I have about the coolest family on Earth. We have so much fun together, we are all healthy and happy and well-adjusted. I feel sorry for those that have no contact with extended family. Cousins: God's best kept secret. (My friends rock too. I will say that I have the best friends in the world)



2. I have a job. The layoffs came and went, and thankfully I am still here (as is my entire department).

3. We have had the best weather in St. Louis the last couple of years. Yes, it gets a little cold, yes, it gets a little humid, but overall, it has been really nice. I was riding my bike in August and the humidity wasn't insane. I am thankful.






4. I have had a great year of traveling: San Fran, Colorado, Europe, last turkey day in New York, Chicago, all very fun, great trips.











5. I can breathe. My life is not handicapped by decongestants (that always put you to sleep), Kleenex, lack of recooperative sleep, and the constant annoying sniffing would drive me and everyone around me crazy. It sounds small, but I am so happy to breathe.


6. Chuck. I am dating the most amazing man. He is giving and warm. He is mature, affectionate, stands aside to let me be independant, but will step in at the right time (i.e. we trade bags at the airport because his is always lighter). He encourages me and listens. He will do anything with me once, but knows I need my space. I could not have asked for a better partner to walk through life together. I just need to keep me level-headed and not start taking this for granted.



Picture Guide: 1. Norman Rockwell (or typical Sunday at the Gettemeier's!), 2. Grandpa & Grandma Kohnen, my mom, me & cousin Bern at a wedding 3. All 16 of the cousins on the Kohnen side. 4. Tara and cute little Paulie 4. Cousin Sarah and friend Laura 5. Pollard, Doty, Celeste, Morton, & Nord (from Nord's 30th) 6. me and Denae (at Joss Stone) 7. Me & Chuck in CO.
Have a happy Thanksgiving (which I am thankful for the food and a long weekend off!)

The big D


Texas. It's a whole other country. Actually, not really. I thought it would be much more cowboy hats and gunracks. I realize I was in Dallas, and St. Louis is a much different place than the rest of Missouri, but still I expected a few. The good news is that I still did Texas things: I shot a gun, I drove on the George Bush Highway, I ate mexican food, I saw Sarah Palin's book in real life...very Texan. We really went down there to spend time with Chuck's parents and that's just what we did. It was a very relaxing weekend of window shopping and eating. They graciously took me to the Save-A-Lot on Lancaster so I could actually see a store that I designed. I have never seen a store I designed in real life. It was very cool.

It's Almost November

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Last weekend was crazy. To be more specific, Saturday was crazy. It all started when someone asked me to be on the planning committee for the United Way's St. Louis Servathon. The Servathon is a large event volunteering at the same time in one specific area. With October 24th being 'Make a Difference Day,' we thought it would be perfect. After lots of pre-work, I arrived at the Regional Arts Commission at 7 am. We arranged, coordinated, and prepped the volunteers as they arrived and sent them off to change the world. I was in charge of the housing projects. Ten elderly and disabled U City residents applied to the city to get some light yardwork, etc done. I had a group of 30 volunteers helping out. My morning was spent checking on the volunteers at each house and directing them on to other projects if they were finished. It wasn't hard work, just a little chaotic. When everyone finished, we headed back to RAC and ate lunch. As expected, lunch didn't show up on time (well, not all of it, just some of it, which I don't know if that was better or worse). Luckily, volunteers tend to be very patient people. I also stalled by offering them pieces of cake with icing flowers. I didn't think that would work after you are nine, but I was wrong. As a thank you for helping out, the planning committee each received the President's Award for Volunteer Service, complete with a letter from the President. It was cool, I am very proud of it.

After clean-up, I ran downtown to Sage to pick up soup (Butternut Squash Bisque, the best in the city) and host a dinner party for 11. I had done as much of the prep work as possible before Saturday, but of course there is always plenty to do. It will be a long time until I host another dinner party for 11. It's soooo much more prep than just having people over: drinks, courses, desserts, the logistics of entertaining, cooking a full meal, and serving it all warm. I did plan ahead. My wonderful cousin Sarah came over to help. After 6 that evening, she did it all. I just enjoyed myself. I am so lucky to have such generous people in my life. The evening went very smoothly and I couldn't have asked for anything better. A hectic day, but a good day.
Have you all taken a look at the fall leaves this year? Wow, they are all extreme in color. I don't know if it's the rain, but it is impressive. Now, just to rake them up...

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

Thursday, October 22, 2009
I admit it. I am a Christmasholic. About this time every year I get antsy for Christmas. I do love fall, but fall just reminds me of what is coming next...Christmas (then I block everything out because January is too hard to think about). I made a deal with myself a couple of years ago. I let myself listen to Christmas music after my mom's birthday (October 15th). This week has just been easier with a festive soundtrack. Work is a little tense right now and we are all still waiting (another three weeks they say) to see if we will have jobs at the end of the year. I have found Christmas music to be the sole source of my calm. I have also converted some co-workers who are now listening to Christmas music and I am happy to report the Store Design department is much more mellow this week.
I have always leaned on the tunes of the Yule. In college I relied heavily on Bing to get me through a paper. Don't under estimate the power of Christmas music.

Here are some of my favorites (off the top of my head):

Mariah Carey: "All I Want For Christmas is You." LOVE IT!

Michael W. Smith: both of his Christmas albums are amazing.

Steve Tyrell and The Carpenters: good classic albums

My favorite Christmas songs are: Baby, it's cold outside, What are you doing new year's eve?, and Christmas all over (Tim Petty)

Of course I love the standards Bing Crosby, Nat King Cole, Rosemary Clooney, Johnny Mathis, etc.


What are your favorite Christmas songs?